“See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?” – Isaiah 43:19
Christmas 2024 is in our rear-view mirror, and now a lot of us are talking about New Year’s resolutions. Possibly you’ve made one yourself. Maybe you’ve resolved to lose weight, start working out, or cut back on the amount of time you spend on your smart phone.
You’ll notice that most New Year’s resolutions are “me”-focused. I want to start doing this. I want to stop doing that. I want to be happy. 2025 is going to be MY year. I think you can see what I’m getting at. Most New Year’s resolutions aren’t bad … just self-absorbed and often pointless.
And
as you probably know, most New Year’s resolutions fail within a few weeks. They
tend to fail for two reasons: because they don’t have a strong motivation, or because
they don’t have a point — a clearly-defined purpose. They don’t have something
that a person can get fired up about. For example: If I carry out this
resolution, my marriage will be saved. If I carry out this resolution, I’ll be
able to afford to send my kids to college. If I carry out this resolution, I
will have a 75% better chance of beating cancer.
So,
how do we make resolutions and set goals that are not self-absorbed or
pointless?
I’m
convinced that the greatest resolutions in life are those that are grounded in
Scripture, motivated by our love for Christ and carried out for the glory of
God. One of the best ways to ensure that our resolutions are not shallow or
pointless is to feed them through this three-part filter. Simply ask yourself:
1.
Is my resolution solidly grounded in the Bible? If so, great! Move on
to question number two.
2. Is my love for Christ my motivation for making this resolution? If
so, fantastic, because the love that led Jesus to the cross for you and me is
the greatest motivator of all!
3.
Am I going to carry out this resolution for my own glory or for the glory of
God?
The glory of God should be the end goal of everything we do, because the glory
of God is the purpose of our existence in the first place.
All
of us need goals to shoot for and resolutions to define our path. When our
goals and resolutions survive the three-question filter, they pave the way for
the greatest adventures of faith. So, if your resolution passes through these
three filters, go for it! And let me know if I can help.
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