“For to me, to live is Christ and to
die is gain.
If I am to go on living in the body,
this will mean fruitful labor for me.”
– Philippians 1:21-22a
This is the
time of year when millions of Americans around the country are talking about
New Year’s resolutions. Possibly you’ve made one yourself. Maybe you’ve made a
resolution to stop smoking, lose weight, start working out or get a better job.
Interestingly, one of the most popular New Year’s resolutions over the past few
years has been to “unplug” from technology. Many Americans have faced the
reality that they are addicted to their smart phones and in response are
jumping on the bandwagon to join “the digital detox.”
Well, I have a few thoughts that I’d like you to consider.
For starters, most New Year’s resolutions are me-focused. They tend to focus on
me, myself and I. I want to start
doing this. I want to stop doing
that. I want to be happy. 2017 is
going to be my year.
Another thought that comes to mind is that most New Year’s resolutions
don’t have a clear point. Think about it: Many Americans have made a resolution
to lose weight, but what’s the point of losing weight? To look better? To feel
better? To buy a new wardrobe? Okay. But what’s the point of looking better,
feeling better and buying a new wardrobe? And while we’re talking about the point
of resolutions, what’s the point of ditching the cigarettes, working out, or
turning off the smart phone?
I hope you can see what I’m getting at here. Most New Year’s
resolutions are not bad, just self-absorbed and rather pointless. As you
probably know, most New Year’s resolutions fail within a few short weeks. And
they tend to fail for two reasons. They fail because they do not have an
intense, powerful motivation. And they fail because they don’t have a point—a
clearly defined purpose. They don’t have something that a person can sink
his/her teeth into and get fired up about. For example: If I carry out this
resolution my marriage will be saved. If I carry out this resolution I’ll be
able to afford to send my kids to college. If I carry out this resolution I
will have a 75% better chance of beating cancer.
So, how do we make resolutions and set goals that are not
self-absorbed or pointless? Great question! I’m convinced that the greatest
resolutions in life are those that are grounded in Scripture, motivated by our
love for Christ and carried out for the glory of God. One of the best ways to
ensure that our resolutions are not shallow or pointless is to feed them
through this three-part filter. Start by asking yourself, “Is my resolution solidly grounded in the Bible?” If so, great!
Move on to question number two: “Is my
love for Christ my motivation for making this resolution?” If so,
fantastic, because Christ’s love that led him to the cross for you and me is
the greatest motivator of all!
Next, ask question number three: “Am I going to carry out this resolution for my own glory or for the
glory of God?” The glory of God should be the end goal of everything that
we do, because the glory of God is the purpose of our existence in the first
place.
So, is it bad to make a resolution to lose twenty pounds or
start eating healthier or start working out or take a trip somewhere? Maybe.
Feed your resolution through the three-question filter and find out. Is your
resolution biblically-grounded? Is your resolution motivated by Christ’s love
for you and your love for Him? Will the carrying out of your resolution bring
glory to God or just bring glory to yourself? If your resolution passes through
the filter, great! Go for it, and let me know if I can help.
But regardless of whether or not you’ve already made a New
Year’s resolution this year, I encourage you to give some serious thought and
prayer to what Jesus Christ would like your life to be about in 2017. It’s
often been said that if you aim for nothing, you will hit it every time. That’s
some great food for thought! All of us
need goals to shoot for and resolutions to define our path. And when our goals
and resolutions survive the three-question filter, they pave the way for the
greatest adventures of faith.
Dane Davis is the lead pastor
of First Christian Church in Victorville.
Start the New Year
right by joining us for worship tomorrow at 10 a.m.